Tuesday, September 28, 2010

borrowed words


Desiderata By Max Ehrmann

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

Friday, September 17, 2010

nothing amusing about it



Lately, all That Man and I have been doing is hashing out our relationship with lots of hurt, rage, frustration, sadness, confusion and tears. The range of emotions for either of us, on any given day, will range from hope to wrist-slitting despair. And that's usually before noon.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

on waking up

you know when you have a dream that seems better than reality and you just don't want to wake up? it's like that.

grace in your heart and flowers in your hair

grace
(noun)
  • simple elegance or refinement of movement
  • courteous goodwill
  • an attractively polite manner of behaving
  • the free and unmerited favor of God, as manifested in the salvation of sinners and the bestowal of blessings
  • a divinely given talent or blessing
  • the condition or fact of being favored by someone

flowers
(symbolism)
  • to show connection to nature, as a symbol for love, innocence and divine beauty